When we watch a youth sports game, it’s easy to focus on the athletes scoring points or the coaches calling the plays. But there’s another presence on the field or court that quietly shapes the experience for everyone: our sports officials.
This Sports Officials Appreciation Week—celebrated throughout the year, coinciding with each sports season—is the perfect time to reflect on the lessons we can learn from these leaders. Lessons that extend far beyond the game and into our daily lives, into our YMCA of Greater Omaha locations, supporting wellness, character, community.
Here's what we can learn from our friends on the playing field:
Calm Leadership Under Pressure
Officials make split-second decisions in high-pressure situations, often amid strong emotions and disagreement. They lead with calm, confidence, and fairness—even when calls are questioned. For kids (and adults), this is a powerful reminder that leadership isn’t about being loud or reactive. It’s about staying composed, making thoughtful decisions, and modeling respect in challenging moments. Forming collaborative and supportive teams, developing better players, and creating truly game-changing moments.
Respect and Fairness
Officials know the rules and apply them consistently, regardless of the situation or the score. This teaches an important life lesson: fairness and integrity matter. When children see rules enforced with consistency and respect, they learn that structure and boundaries help teams—and communities—thrive.
Communication Builds Trust
An official’s communication helps keep the game moving smoothly and sets the tone. By clearly explaining decisions and setting expectations, they build understanding and trust among players and coaches. Kids watching learn that clear, respectful communication strengthens teamwork and helps everyone stay focused on shared goals.
Leading Through Service
Perhaps the most inspiring lesson officials model is that leadership often means serving others. They give their time, energy, and expertise not for recognition, but to create a safe, positive environment where young athletes can grow and have fun. True leadership isn’t about the spotlight or any of the credit—it’s about making a meaningful impact.
Taking the Lessons Off the Field
Consider how these lessons can influence your children—or even yourself! Encourage kids to notice calm leadership, fairness, and respect in action. Celebrate those who guide others with patience and integrity. And maybe, if you’re inspired, step into a leadership role yourself—on the field, at work, or in your community.
At the YMCA, we see these lessons in action every day—on the courts, on our fields, in the pool, even in our other youth and community spaces where connections are made.
Life, like sports, is full of moments that challenge us. Navigating them requires awareness and a simple belief in yourself—knowing you're allowed to take up space, that you can make the call, people are counting on you, and you deserve the same respect as anyone else—while modeling integrity, calm and care in every situation.
